Cheers Pete.
No mayonnaise in the oil or on dip stick so for now that's ok I guess. NOW maybe I have something that might shed a bit more light on this CONUNDRUM .
I turned the car on from cold after I checked the oil and heater temp and took the car out for a mile run, just slow nothing above 3 thousand revs for a mile just to let the car get up to temp,when I got back and flipped the bonnet I had a look around for any leaks I touched the top left ( as you view the pic ) where the top hose connects and another thinner hose the square part if you like and my god it is Too hot to touch just the top corner, but the rest of the rad is cold/normal like all other radiators you could touch.
Could it be a faulty radiator, it is only 3 months old but these things happen,well to me at least if not it must be an air lock, I just thought I would share the latest bit of info.
Thanks guys