I'm like that. You feel for the family and friends but sort of think it could have been some pedestrian they killed, A lad who I know is due out after doing 2 years inside for killing a woman at some lights whilst racing he over took on the junction the lights was on green but the woman had already started to cross so was over halfway on the other side of the road as he smashed into her.
But I also know the guy and he's a really nice lad wouldn't ever start a fight with anyone unless you pi$$ed him off 1st but he would sooner walk away. But that moment of thrill seeking I guess on public roads we all do it I know ended with a woman dead. I was speaking to him before he was sent to prison and he was a mess, said all he can see when he closes his eye was her hitting the windscreen. Was put on loads of pills for depression and to help him sleep didn't drink much but started drinking after that. So it is tough I think the petrol head in use makes us feel for them. but our humanity pulls us the other way too :D